Here on the blog, we make it a point to focus on the family. Marriage, homemaking, and for those in ministry—balancing it all while staying vibrant through life’s chaos. Life has a way of throwing curveballs, and how we respond to those moments speaks volumes about who we are.
I don’t have all the answers, but I do have my experiences to share with you. And one truth I’ve come to hold onto is this: God is the answer to every situation. When I put Him first, everything else has a way of falling into place. The hard part? Letting go of control so He can truly work in me and through me.
The Power of Small Acts of Love Rooted in Faith
This past December, my husband and I celebrated 26 years of marriage. I’d love to tell you that every year was easy, but that wouldn’t be the truth. However, through every challenge, we have grown in love and understanding. If you’d like to read how our story began, check out my post, We’re Just Friends.
What I’ve learned is that the things that mean the most in marriage are often the smallest gestures. When I’m overwhelmed, and my husband steps in without me asking—just to ease my load—it speaks love in ways words never could. He listens to the little things, the ones I sometimes don’t even realize I’ve said. Those moments remind me that love isn’t about grand gestures; it’s in the everyday acts of kindness and attentiveness.
Faith-Based Ways to Show Love Every Day
Here are some simple, faith-filled ways to show love that can make a big impact:
- Leave a sticky note on the steering wheel or bathroom mirror with a Bible verse and encouragement.
- Fix his or her favorite meal or dessert without being asked as a way to serve in love.
- Send a thoughtful text message with a prayer or uplifting scripture during the day.
- Take care of a small task that your spouse normally handles to lighten their load as an act of selflessness.
- Hold hands more often, even when sitting on the couch, and pray together daily.
- Express gratitude out loud for something your spouse does regularly, affirming them in their role.
- Plan a small surprise, like a favorite coffee or a simple date night at home, as a reminder of your commitment.
- Pray over your spouse daily and let them know you are covering them in prayer.
Biblical Encouragement for Marriage
The Bible is full of reminders about the power of love and small acts of kindness. One verse that always comes to mind is “With all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love,” (Ephesians 4:2). Marriage is about patience, humility, and listening to each other even when life gets chaotic.
Another verse that speaks to me is “Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.” (Philippians 2:3). When we put our spouse’s needs above our own and practice selflessness, we create a marriage built on trust and faith.
Making Time for One Another Through Faith
In the middle of raising a family, running a home, and for many of us, serving in ministry, it’s easy to let time together slip through the cracks. But making space for each other, even in the simplest ways, is vital. It doesn’t have to be extravagant—sometimes, a night on the couch together can be just as meaningful as a date night out. If you need ideas, check out my post, Creative and Budget-Friendly Date Night Ideas.
Strengthening Your Marriage Through Intentionality and Prayer
Last June, in our Marriage Monday series, we talked about ways to strengthen marriage through intentionality and faith. If you missed those posts, I encourage you to go back and check them out. One resource I want to offer you is my guide, 10 Tips for Navigating Marriage & Ministry. And while it’s written with ministry in mind, the principles apply to any marriage. You can download it and use it as a tool to invest in your relationship.
Encouragement for the Journey
Marriage, like faith, is a journey. There are highs and lows, victories and struggles. But one thing remains—love grows when nurtured. Small, intentional acts of kindness, a listening ear, a thoughtful word—these things add up and build a marriage that stands strong through the years.
I want to encourage you today. Whether you are newly married or have decades behind you, take a moment to invest in the small things. Tell your spouse you appreciate them. Step in where they need support. Make time, even when life is busy. And most importantly, pray together, seek God’s guidance, and keep Christ at the center of your marriage.
Love isn’t in the grand moments alone—it’s in the everyday, in the small gestures that leave a big impact.
Let’s keep choosing love, one moment at a time. Remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are!
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