Let’s be honest—homemaking isn’t just about keeping a spotless house. It’s about crafting a space where love, laughter, and peace thrive. A home should be a place that wraps you in warmth like your favorite worn-out sweatshirt—the one you refuse to get rid of even though it’s got a hole in the sleeve. It’s not about perfection, but about creating a cozy atmosphere where your family feels safe, comfortable, and cherished.
Stop and ask yourself this question, “Does this item add peace or clutter to my space?”
Letting Go of Perfection
A clutter-free space can bring a sense of calm and organization. Take a few moments each day to reset your home by:
- ✔ Setting a 10-minute timer – Quickly tidy up high-traffic areas like the kitchen and living room.
- ✔ Creating “drop zones” – Have designated baskets or trays for keys, mail, and other frequently used items.
- ✔ Donating what no longer serves your home – Ask, “Does this item add peace or clutter to my space?”
One of the best things I’ve ever done for myself in creating an atmosphere of love is letting go of the need for perfection. It may seem strange, but I used to have full-on meltdowns whenever people were coming over, worried that everything wasn’t in perfect order. I’ve learned (and am still learning) that guests don’t walk in judging my baseboards or checking the dust on my ceiling fan (thankfully!).
Now, when someone drops by, as long as my home is somewhat tidy and doesn’t emit some weird smell, I can stay relatively calm. My kids might argue otherwise, but I’ve picked up some tricks along the way. One game-changer? My 4-week cleaning schedule. I know I’ve mentioned it a lot lately, but it truly is a lifesaver! Instead of trying to tackle everything in one exhausting day, I pace myself.
Is it just me, or do you ever start cleaning one room, pick up an item to put away, and suddenly find yourself cleaning another room? Then another? Before you know it, you’ve spent an hour bouncing from space to space with no real progress. I’ve been that girl! That’s why having a list helps me stay on track. I tackle what I can in a day—nothing more, nothing less.
Embracing the Season of Life You’re In
I’d love to say I have 30 minutes every Saturday to tackle extra cleaning, but that’s not my reality right now. And that’s okay. A time will come when my schedule is less demanding, but for now, I’m fully present in this season with my husband and kids.
My husband and I joke that when we finally get a moment alone, I always say, I’m bored. Maybe that sounds crazy, but my family is my world. I love spending my time with them. And though one day they’ll move on with their own lives, they’ll always know I’m here for them.
Cozy Decor & Lighting
Small changes can make a big impact in creating a warm, inviting home:
🌿 Soft textures – Add throw blankets, fluffy pillows, or area rugs to cozy up your space.
🕯️ Warm lighting – Swap out harsh white bulbs for warm-tone lighting or use candles and lamps in the evening.
💐 Seasonal touches – Even though it’s winter, bring in nature with dried flowers, a bowl of fresh citrus, or a simple evergreen wreath.
Essential Oils for a Loving Cozy Home
Scent plays a powerful role in setting the mood of your home, and for me, it’s one of the quickest ways to create a sense of peace and comfort. My son and I have incredibly sensitive noses—we can detect even the slightest unpleasant odor. There’s nothing worse than walking into a home that doesn’t smell fresh. That’s one reason I love essential oils. They not only freshen the air but also create a calming and cozy atmosphere.
The New Year Peace Blends are perfect for diffusing calm and love throughout your space:
💜 Lavender & Cedarwood – Promotes relaxation and a peaceful heart.
🕊️ Frankincense & Sweet Orange – Uplifts the spirit and encourages a warm, welcoming atmosphere.
🌿 Roll-On Blend – Apply to pulse points for a moment of peace in a busy day.
If you haven’t signed up for our monthly essential oil email, you should! You’ll receive a new blend straight to your inbox each month. Or, check out the oil blends already available on the blog. New Year Peace Blend is a great place to start. Something else that matters to me? The way my home smells.
Cozy Looks Different for Everyone
To me, cozy means snuggling up on the couch with my kids or husband under warm blankets. It’s baking in the kitchen with the delicious aroma of sourdough bread (or cookies—who can resist?). It’s helping my kids design their rooms so their personalities shine through, making them feel truly at home.
But more than anything, a cozy atmosphere starts with you—the parent, the spouse, the person you are. The energy you bring into your home sets the tone for everyone else. If you’re constantly stressed or angry, those emotions spread. But when you choose joy, love naturally follows, filling every corner of your home.
"By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches." -Proverbs 24:3-4
This verse reminds us that a truly peaceful home isn’t just about decor or cleanliness—it’s about the wisdom and understanding that goes into building a home filled with love, patience, and care. It’s about creating a space where every member of the family feels valued and nurtured.
"And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony." - Colossians 3:14
Love is what ties everything in our homes together. Without it, even the most beautifully decorated space can feel cold. But when we approach our homemaking with love—whether that’s through an encouraging word, a lovingly prepared meal, or simply being present—we create a home that radiates warmth and harmony.
At the end of the day, coziness isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. When we are intentional about the atmosphere in our homes, we create a space where love can flourish. What’s one simple way you can cultivate warmth in your home this week?
Remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are!
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