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How to Bake with Soft White Wheat Using Fresh Milled Flour

Susan Raynor — Mon, 23 Feb 2026 13:00:00 +0000

February often feels a little quieter in our home. The rush of the new year has settled, routines are taking shape, and there’s space to notice what’s working—and what isn’t. This slower pace has made it the perfect time for us to continue learning about fresh milled flour in a practical, real‑life way.

In January, I shared the foundation of our fresh milled flour journey—why we’re learning this, what wheat berries are, and how this shift fits into everyday family life. If you’re brand new, that post is a helpful place to start: Fresh Milled Flour for Beginners: A Simple, Year‑Long Family Journey.

Rather than reteaching the basics here, this post focuses on what fresh milled flour looks like in our kitchen right now—specifically through working with soft white wheat, testing familiar recipes, and learning as we go.

Why Soft White Wheat Works Well for Everyday Baking

When you’re new to fresh milled flour, it’s easy to assume you need to jump straight into yeast breads or sourdough. In my experience, that’s often where discouragement sets in.

Soft white wheat is lower in protein than hard wheats, which means it creates tender, softer baked goods. It shines in recipes that don’t rely on strong gluten structure, making it a gentle place to learn—without the pressure of perfection.

How Soft White Wheat Shows Up in Our Kitchen

I want to pause here and be honest—this journey didn’t start with me knowing exactly what I was doing. I came into fresh milled flour curious and willing to test things slowly before making big claims.

So far, here’s how soft white wheat has been showing up in our kitchen this month:

Waffles were our first test—and they were a win. Using our familiar homemade waffle recipe and swapping in freshly milled soft white wheat helped me see just how forgiving this grain can be.
Pancakes came next. They tasted good, but they were noticeably flatter than what we were used to.
Cookies were our third test. They turned out tasty, but I’m still dialing in what I love most about them with soft white wheat—and I want to test this grain across several different cookie recipes before calling it a true win.
Sourdough biscuits were another test. They were very good and flaky, but they didn’t rise quite as well as they normally do—something I’m still learning and adjusting as I go.
Muffins are next on my list. I want to test them well before saying they’re a go-to, because I believe in sharing what actually works—not just what sounds good.

This is what learning soft white wheat looks like for us right now: trying familiar recipes, paying attention to how they behave, and adjusting as we go—without rushing the process.

That slow, steady approach is where confidence starts to grow.

Learning fresh milled flour one recipe at a time—save this post if you’re starting with soft white wheat.

What I’m Still Paying Attention To with Fresh Milled Flour

As I continue working with soft white wheat, there are a few things I’m intentionally watching and learning as I go:

Hydration: how much rest time makes the biggest difference in batters versus doughs
Structure: which recipes need a little more strength and which ones thrive with tenderness alone
Rise: noticing when soft white wheat performs beautifully and when another grain may be needed
Flavor: how fresh milled flour tastes across different recipes and over time

None of this is about getting it perfect. It’s simply about paying attention, taking notes, and letting experience guide the next step.

And here’s a little full‑circle moment I can’t help but laugh at: I hated science and math growing up. Truly. Yet here I am—measuring, testing, adjusting, and learning through trial and error in my own kitchen. Turns out, I don’t mind science at all… as long as it involves an apron and wheat berries.

Coming Next in Our Fresh Milled Flour Journey

As we move forward, I’ll continue sharing what I’m learning—what works, what needs adjusting, and how familiar recipes can slowly be adapted to fresh milled flour.

Next, we’ll focus on simple flour conversions and swapping fresh milled flour into recipes we already know and love.

If you missed January’s post, I encourage you to start there: Fresh Milled Flour for Beginners: A Simple, Year-Long Family Journey

I’m so glad you’re walking this road with me—one step at a time.

From My Kitchen to Yours

Over the past year, I’ve had the chance to use several NutriMill products in my own kitchen, and they’ve truly become part of our everyday rhythm.

The NutriMill Classic Grain Mill has been the biggest game changer for us. Being able to mill fresh flour at home has not only improved the quality of our baking, but it’s also helped me feel more confident about what I’m feeding my family.

I’ve also started using a few of their newer products, like the dough mats (which I didn’t realize I needed until I used one!) and the Bosch Universal Plus Mixer, which has been a huge help as I’ve grown more serious about baking.

What I appreciate most is that these are tools built to last. From my experience, NutriMill stands behind their products, and that matters when you’re investing in your kitchen.

If you’ve been considering a grain mill or upgrading your baking tools, I’d simply encourage you to keep an eye on their sales. You can use my code MAKINMACON20 for savings on select products (like mixers and accessories), though it doesn’t currently apply to the grain mill.

If you do choose to shop through my link or use my code, it’s a simple way to support our family and the work we’re doing here at Makin’ Macon—and I’m truly grateful.

I’ll always share honestly what’s working in my kitchen—and this is one of those things I’d choose again without hesitation.

Ready to Keep Learning?

If fresh milled flour has sparked your curiosity, I’d love for you to keep exploring the blog. I’ve created a Fresh Milled Flour section under the Recipes category so you can easily find all of our fresh milled flour posts and recipe swaps in one place as this journey continues.

And if you enjoy getting new recipes, simple kitchen tips, and encouragement right in your inbox, you’re invited to join Rooted Table—my once-a-month recipe email where I share what we’re cooking, what’s working, and reminders that a homemade meal doesn’t have to be perfect to be a blessing.

Whether you’re milling grain or just cheering from the sidelines, I’m thankful you’re here.

And remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are!

Hey there! I’m Susan Raynor, the voice behind Makin’ Macon. As a pastor’s wife, mom of two, and homeschooling mama, my life is full of beautiful chaos—and I wouldn’t have it any other way! Here on the blog, I love sharing a little bit of everything: from faith-filled encouragement to frugal living tips, and of course, recipes that will make your family’s hearts (and bellies) happy. My goal is to bring a smile to your face and a bit of peace to your day, no matter what kind of craziness life throws your way. Let’s navigate this wild ride together, finding joy and laughter even in the messiest moments.

Susan Raynor

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Fresh Milled Flour for Beginners: A Simple, Year-Long Family Journey

Susan Raynor — Mon, 26 Jan 2026 13:00:00 +0000

If you follow me on social media at all, you already know I’ve been experimenting more and more with fresh milled flour and learning how it fits into real life, real kitchens, and real family meals. What started as simple curiosity has slowly turned into a full‑on journey, and in 2026, I want to invite you to walk this road with me.

This post isn’t about perfection. It’s about learning, growing, and making thoughtful changes one step at a time—without losing sight of what matters most: feeding our families well and keeping life simple.

How My Fresh Milled Flour Journey Began

My quest really began when I started learning more about what actually goes into our food. Like many people (and I say this with grace for my former self), I bought what was inexpensive and easy.

If you’ve read my story, In the Beginning, then you know I didn’t grow up loving to cook. Not because my mother didn’t try—she did—but because I had absolutely no desire. In those early years of marriage, money was tight. So unless my husband cooked, I leaned on what was quick and cheap: Hamburger Helper, frozen dinners, and anything that felt manageable.

That didn’t magically change once I became a mom.

When I started keto, everything shifted—but not in the way I expected. My husband wanted no part of it (which honestly shocked me), so I was left cooking separately for myself or relying on premade foods. If you’ve ever done keto, you know how quickly that can become expensive.

To keep going, I had to start researching how to make things myself. That’s when I found my favorite keto creator, Carolyn from All Day I Dream About Food. I loved her recipes so much that I now own every cookbook she’s published.

What keto gave me—beyond blood sugar awareness—was confidence in the kitchen.

When Awareness Turned Into Action

Over time, I started hearing more about the dangers of certain ingredients. I began flipping over packages. Checking labels. Looking at my kids’ snacks.

And honestly? I was horrified.

I had already started cutting back on sugar, but realizing how many additives were hiding in everyday foods was overwhelming. I remember thinking, What kind of parent am I?

Here’s the truth though: this isn’t about guilt.

This is about awareness.

We are not 100% “clean” over here, and I’m not aiming for that. But I am intentional now. And somewhere along the way, my kids became bread snobs. Store‑bought bread? They won’t touch it.

So fresh bread it is.

Why Use Fresh Milled Flour for Your Family?

Before we go any further, let’s talk about the why.

When white flour is produced, the bran and germ are removed—along with many nutrients and fiber. Research shows that wheat bran contains protein, carbohydrates, minerals, fat, and is one of the most important sources of dietary fiber. The removal of these components has been linked to digestive issues and nutritional deficiencies.

In simple terms: refined flour is easier to bake with, but it’s missing much of what God originally put there.

Now—this does not make you a bad person if you use regular flour.

Unbleached is better than bleached. Organic is often better than non‑organic (just check your sources). Cost matters. Budget matters. I didn’t get here overnight—this has taken years of saving, learning, and buying things one piece at a time.

Why Kamut Became My Starting Point with Fresh Milled Flour

My very first wheat berry purchase was Kamut (also known as khorasan wheat) from The Food Nanny.

Down the rabbit hole I went.

After years of keto, bread was something I could never quite enjoy. Keto cornbread was the one win—but most keto breads just didn’t work for me. I loved Lewis Keto Bread, but at over $5 a loaf, it added up quickly.

That’s when I started asking better questions: Is this good for my blood sugar? Yes. But is it good for my overall health?

Kamut became my preferred grain because:

It’s an ancient grain
I personally experience lower blood sugar spikes
It’s nutritionally dense and easier for me to digest

Research has shown Kamut may support:

Lower cholesterol and blood glucose
Reduced inflammation
Improved gut health
Higher levels of protein, selenium, magnesium, zinc, and vitamin E

I can’t promise it works this way for everyone—but I can share what’s worked for me.

Hard vs. Soft Wheat Berries: Understanding Fresh Milled Flour Basics

Before we dive headfirst into recipes, I want to gently orient you to the different wheat berries we’ll be working with this year. This isn’t meant to overwhelm you—it’s simply to help you understand why certain grains work better in certain situations.

Think of this as your reference point. When we go deeper in future posts, we’ll always come back here.

Soft White Wheat Berries

Soft white wheat is typically lower in protein and gluten strength, which makes it ideal for recipes where tenderness matters most.

I reach for soft white wheat when making:

Biscuits
Muffins
Pancakes and waffles
Cookies and quick breads
Cakes

It mills beautifully and creates a softer crumb that can feel familiar if you’re used to all-purpose flour—but it’s important to note that fresh milled soft white wheat is not a direct replacement. Commercial all-purpose flour is typically a blend of wheats, while this berry shines best on its own in tender baked goods. For many families, this is still the easiest place to start.

Hard White Wheat Berries

Hard white wheat has a higher protein content than soft wheat, but with a lighter flavor than hard red wheat. It’s incredibly versatile and one of the most commonly used berries in fresh milled baking.

I use hard white wheat for:

Sandwich bread
Dinner rolls
Pizza dough
Cinnamon rolls
Everyday yeast breads

If you’re looking for a fresh milled flour that behaves closest to store-bought all-purpose flour in many recipes, hard white wheat is often the bridge—not because it’s the same, but because its protein and flavor balance make it adaptable with a few thoughtful adjustments.

Hard Red Wheat Berries

Hard red wheat is higher in protein and has a stronger, more traditional “wheat” flavor. This is the grain many people associate with classic whole wheat bread.

I want to be honest here—this is not a berry I personally use often in my everyday recipes. Simply put, my crew doesn’t care for the stronger flavor, and that matters in my kitchen.

That said, hard red wheat still has an important place in your home.

Hard red wheat works well for:

Hearty yeast breads
Sourdough loaves
Blending with hard white wheat for balance

And one place I do love using it? Feeding my sourdough starter.

Because of its higher protein content and nutrient density, hard red wheat became my original go‑to for feeding my sourdough starter—mainly because it was what I had on hand at the time. That said, hard white wheat works just as well, so there’s no need to buy both unless you want to.

This is a great example of how fresh milled flour doesn’t have to be all‑or‑nothing. Each grain can serve a purpose—even if that purpose looks different than expected.

A Gentle Reminder

You do not need to master all of this at once.

This year is about learning which berries work best for your family, your kitchen, and your season of life. We’ll go deeper into each grain as the months go on, with practical recipes and real-life testing along the way.

Are you ready?

What This Year Will Look Like Using Fresh Milled Flour

My goal for 2026 is simple: transition my family fully to fresh milled flour.

That means:

Keeping wheat berries on hand
Learning to bake with commonly available grains
Retesting older recipes and sharing fresh‑milled swaps

I’ve always been a measuring‑cup girl, but fresh milled flour has taught me the importance of grams. We’ll talk about that too—and I’ll walk you through it gently.

And don’t worry…

Fresh Milled Flour, Regular Flour, and Keto: There’s Room for Everyone

If you prefer regular flour—stay.

If you’re keto—stay.

If you’re somewhere in between—this space is for you too.

I’ll continue sharing our family‑favorite recipes, offering options for unbleached all‑purpose flour and fresh milled flour whenever possible.

Because real life requires flexibility.

The Grain Mill I Use for Fresh Milled Flour (And Why)

I personally use the NutriMill Classic Grain Mill.

I chose it for the price point and because I didn’t plan on leaving it on my counter. I usually mill flour once a week (sometimes two) and store it in airtight containers.

Yes, there are strong opinions about milling only what you use immediately. But here at Makin’ Macon, we simplify where we can.

We homeschool. We’re active in church. Life is full.

My goal is progress—not perfection.

If you’re watching for a deal, NutriMill runs sales often. I always share them on social media, and you can stack savings using my code MAKINMACON20 for an extra $20 off.

Let’s Walk This Together

This year, we’ll learn together.

We’ll test. We’ll tweak. We’ll fail forward.

And most importantly—we’ll keep feeding our families with intention and grace.

I’m so glad you’re here.

Remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are!

**If you’re new to fresh milled flour, bookmark this post—we’ll be referencing it throughout the year as we continue learning, baking, and making simple family recipes together.

Susan Raynor

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What It Really Means to Be Still and Know God

Susan Raynor — Mon, 06 Oct 2025 12:00:00 +0000

The to-do list is long. The schedule is packed. The emotions are heavy. And in the middle of it all, the Lord is whispering a simple but powerful phrase: Be still.

If you’re anything like me, you’ve probably found yourself asking: How am I supposed to keep up with it all?

October came in fast this year, and with it came a season that feels a little more chaotic than usual. Events, expectations, emotions—and underneath it all, this quiet tug from the Lord whispering, “Be still.”

But being still doesn’t come naturally to me.

Maybe it doesn’t for you either.

I like to move. I like to get things done. I like to check boxes and feel like I’ve accomplished something. But lately, I’ve been learning that slowing down isn’t laziness—it’s obedience. And it might just be the most spiritual decision I make all day.

A Real-Life Reminder to Be Still

At a recent doctor’s appointment, he looked at me and said, “Susan, you need to slow down.”

I nodded politely, but inside I was thinking, Slow down? With what calendar? With what margin?

Still, his words stayed with me.

And not just his words, but it’s something the Lord has been dealing with me about during this time of perimenopause. I feel like I’m very aware of what’s going on with my body—even if I don’t completely understand it. I did all the research over the last few years trying to prepare myself for what is to come. My situation has been a little different with PCOS and Endometriosis (something many doctors still do not understand to this day). So to sit and be still just didn’t feel right. But I have known—and I think the Lord has pushed me to know—that it is necessary.

That reminder stirred something deeper in me, sending me back to a verse I’ve heard a thousand times—a verse that echoed the same message God has been whispering all along:

"Be still and know that I am God." — Psalm 46:10

It didn’t feel like a suggestion. It felt like an invitation.

To stop.
To breathe.
To remember Who holds it all together (hint: it’s not me).

I’ve been learning to listen to that invitation. Not just spiritually—but practically. I’ve started finding little ways to pause the noise and rest my mind:

Sitting on the floor to play with my son—even when I have a million things to do.
Soaking my feet in that little foot spa I bought and actually letting myself enjoy it.
Sipping a hot cup of tea before the day takes off like a freight train.
Letting my husband take over for a bit when I feel like I’ve hit a wall.

None of it’s fancy. None of it’s perfect. But it’s intentional.

And that’s the point.

Prefer to listen? You can hear this encouragement here:

What “Be Still” Really Means

When we hear “Be still and know that I am God,” it’s easy to think it means to simply pause and trust. And while that’s part of it, the Hebrew behind “be still” (raphah) actually means to let go, to release your grip, to stop striving.

It’s not passive—it’s active surrender.

It’s me unclenching my hands, loosening my shoulders, and saying, “Okay, God. I’m not holding this together—you are.”

That changes how I sit with this verse. It means I don’t just sit still—I surrender. I let go of the need to be perfect. I let go of my jam-packed schedule. I let go of the guilt for needing rest. And I make space to know—really know—that He is God and I am not.

“Be still” isn’t just a quiet moment—it’s a surrendered one. This quote from the post reminded me that stillness takes intention, not inaction.

Why Learning to Be Still Matters

If you’ve been feeling overstimulated, stretched thin, or emotionally drained—can I encourage you?

You’re allowed to pause.
You’re allowed to breathe.
You’re allowed to rest.

And not because everything is done. Not because your world is perfectly in order. But because God didn’t ask you to carry it all. He asked you to trust Him.

Sometimes trusting Him looks like moving forward in faith.
Other times? It looks like sitting down and letting Him carry you.

You don’t have to earn rest.
You don’t have to justify it.
You just have to say yes to the invitation.

Be still. Breathe. He’s already working.

Want More Encouragement?

If this post spoke to you today, you can listen to the full podcast episode here:
Episode 7: Be Still & Breathe

And if you’d like weekly encouragement in your inbox (the kind that doesn’t overwhelm or guilt-trip you), join the Stay Rooted email group:
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You’re not alone in this, friend.
And even on the days when it feels like too much—

God is still enough.

Remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are.

Susan Raynor

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1-Year NutriMill Classic Grain Mill Review: The Truth About Fresh Flour at Home

Susan Raynor — Mon, 22 Sep 2025 12:00:00 +0000

The NutriMill Classic Grain Mill has been in my kitchen for a year now, and I thought it was time to share my honest experience. This isn’t one of my normal blog posts, but I felt like it needed to be added because I’ve had people from different platforms asking me about my grain mill.

Since I already had a YouTube video review out there, I figured it was time to sit down and write out my updated thoughts for you.

When I first started researching grain mills, I knew I wanted one that would fit my lifestyle—not just look pretty on the counter. After digging into reviews and comparisons, I landed on the NutriMill Classic Grain Mill.

My plan was never to leave it sitting out. Instead, I wanted something that could mill a big enough batch to last me a couple of weeks, and then be tucked away until the next round. Capacity, storage, and price all played a big role in my decision. A year later, I can say the Classic was the right choice for me.

Why I Still Love My NutriMill Classic Grain Mill After a Year

Practical for My Needs – Milling about 4 cups of grain at a time gives me enough flour to last 2 weeks. Around here, we mix our freshly milled whole wheat with unbleached all-purpose flour.

My kids aren’t fully on board with 100% whole wheat yet—but progress is progress! I still don’t think they’ll ever give up fresh white bread completely—they turn their noses up at store-bought loaves and won’t touch them! But hey, baby steps count as wins in my book.

Hard Red Wheat & Kamut – So far, I’ve experimented with hard red wheat and kamut—each for different reasons. They both work differently, as you’ll quickly discover if you start milling your own flour.

I’m excited about branching out and mixing in other wheat types soon. Lately, I’ve been reading up on which grains act more like unbleached all-purpose flour in baking. Maybe by next year, I’ll be ready to share an update on that journey.

Consistency & Durability – Dozens of batches later, it still runs like new. I never worry about whether it can handle the next grind.

Another detail I love—it’s designed and assembled right here in the USA, which gives me even more confidence in the quality and longevity of my grain mill.

Ease of Use – Fill the hopper, choose your texture, and let it go. Cleanup takes just a few minutes.

It’s also surprisingly fast for the amount of grain it can process, though like most mills, it does make some noise while running. For me, the trade-off is well worth it.

The Benefits of Using a Grain Mill at Home

There’s a lot of debate about nutrients being lost if flour isn’t used immediately after grinding. For me, I use enough flour often enough that milling in larger batches works perfectly.

Here’s what I’ve noticed in my own kitchen:

Fresher flavor – If you’re used to only baking with all-purpose flour, fresh-milled wheat is definitely an acquired taste. It can take some time to get used to the new flavor profile.

But I think it’s absolutely worth it once you learn how much is taken out of wheat during commercial milling just to keep it shelf-stable. Recent research also shows that many major minerals and vitamins (like vitamin E) are greatly reduced in refined flour and bread compared with whole kernels (news-medical.net).

“Refined wheat flour loses large amounts of protein, fiber, minerals, and antioxidants compared to whole wheat.”
Source: National Library of Medicine

More control – I like knowing exactly what’s going into my baking. That’s really the reason I started cooking from scratch in the first place—I wanted to know what my family was eating.

Once I began reading ingredient labels, I realized I couldn’t even pronounce half the words, and the list of ingredients was downright ridiculous. With a grain mill, I can choose simple, wholesome ingredients that I trust, and that makes all the difference—not just for health, but for taste too.

And honestly, that’s why I’ll keep learning and experimenting with different grains, because every step helps me serve my family better.

Better nutrition – Fresh flour still carries far more of the natural goodness than what you’ll find sitting on store shelves.

Plus, buying whole grains in bulk is often cheaper than purchasing bags of flour, so over time, it’s a money-saver too.

Would I Buy the NutriMill Classic Grain Mill Again?

Absolutely! But if I could do it over again, I’d wait for a sale.

When NutriMill invited me to be an affiliate, I realized just how often they run promotions—and I love being able to share those with you. Don’t forget, you can use my code MAKINMACON20 at NutriMill.com/MAKINMACON20 to save an extra $20 on qualifying items.

Newer NutriMill Products I’ve Tested

Over the past year, I’ve had the chance to try some of NutriMill’s newer products—and they really impressed me:

NutriMill Dough Mats – It felt like Christmas opening the box! If you’ve followed me for any amount of time, you know I was still using my grandmother’s dough mat, which had definitely seen better days.

Y’all, I didn’t realize how much I needed a new one until I rolled my first dough on these! They are amazing—durable, non-slip, and huge. The 20×28 mat fits perfectly on my island, where I do most of my kneading. Check out the Small Dough Mat here and the Large Dough Mat here.

Bosch Universal Plus Mixer – Later, I jumped on a sale and finally grabbed the Bosch I’d been eyeing. My KitchenAid was starting to act up, and with a home bakery in the works, I needed something stronger.

It’s new to my kitchen, and so far, I’m loving what it can do. But since I’ve only been using it a short time, I’ll save a full review for another post once I’ve put it through more recipes.

NutriMill has also been great to work with—their customer service is amazing from my personal experience, and they back their products with solid warranties, which is reassuring when you’re investing in equipment like this.

From My Kitchen to Yours

One year in, I’m still so glad I chose the NutriMill Classic Grain Mill. It’s reliable, practical, and has made baking healthier and easier for my family.

Between fresh flour, their newer products like the dough mats, and the Bosch mixer I finally took the plunge on, NutriMill continues to impress me. If you’ve been thinking about adding a grain mill to your kitchen, I’d cheer you on in a heartbeat.

Just keep an eye out for those sales! And if you’re curious about the science behind all this, I’ve linked a couple of studies above that explain what really happens when wheat is milled for store shelves.

If I had to make the decision again today, I’d still choose the NutriMill Classic over other grain mills on the market.

I hope this review has helped you as you think through your own decision about whether a grain mill is right for your kitchen. If it did, I’d love for you to share this post with a friend who might be considering one too, or leave a comment with your own experience.

Remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are.

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Disclosure: This review is based on my personal experience with the NutriMill Classic Grain Mill and related products. All opinions are my own.

Susan Raynor

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5 Powerful Reminders For When Your Rhythm Feels Off

Susan Raynor — Mon, 25 Aug 2025 12:00:00 +0000

Every season has its own rhythm. Sometimes it’s a steady, beautiful beat that feels effortless—and other times, it’s more like clumsy drum practice in the church when the worship team is still figuring out the song. We all have those seasons where the rhythm is off. Maybe it’s a new school year, a change in your work schedule, a move, or just the daily grind wearing you thin.

For me, one of the biggest rhythm shifts happens when we move from the slow pace of summer into the structure of a new homeschool year.

Learning to Adjust

We’re homeschooling again this year, and I’m determined for it to run more smoothly than last year. That first year was a huge learning curve. I’ve shared about it in another post: The Truth About Our First Year Homeschooling.

At first, I had no idea what I was doing. Consequently, I had to put my “get it done” mentality aside and learn to relax through the process. This year, I’m still learning—but I’ve found a simple win: giving my son and daughter a checklist for the day.

No fancy apps, just bullet points in my phone’s notes they can check off. As a result, it keeps us all on track without being rigid. Sure, we veer from the list sometimes, but more often than not, we’re all happier with the rhythm.

Opposites in Marriage

I married a man who thrives on spontaneity, while I thrive on plans. He likes to decide as we go; I like to map it out ahead of time. His way can throw me for a loop, but it’s good for me—it keeps me from becoming too stiff. In turn, my structure has helped him too. We’ve grown from learning each other’s ways, and our kids have taught us both to stretch in new directions.

However, when God changes the rhythm? That’s a whole different adjustment.

Prefer to listen? You can hear this encouragement here:

A Swift Move That Changed Everything

Several years ago, after almost seven years of marriage, I was in prayer when I heard the Lord say, “Your move will be swift.” Naturally, I brushed it off. I loved our quiet little life out in the sticks, near family. Moving wasn’t in my plans.

Meanwhile, my husband and I had been praying to be used more in ministry, and we were happily serving as Youth Pastors at the church I grew up in.

Then one day, while visiting friends in Colorado, our car overheated climbing a mountain. We pulled over, and the phone rang. On the other end was someone asking if we’d consider pastoring a home missions church in Texas.

Texas?! No jobs, no house, no plan—just hotter weather and a whole lot of unknowns. Nevertheless, God confirmed it through prayer, a dream, and even the quick sale of our home after months with no offers.

Within a week, we were packing everything into storage and a trailer, moving toward something we couldn’t fully see but knew God had called us to.

Talk about having your rhythm completely upended.

5 Powerful Reminders for When Your Rhythm Feels Off

When your rhythm is disrupted, it’s easy to lose focus and let worry take over. These five reminders have anchored me in seasons when everything felt uncertain, and I hope they will do the same for you:

Find a Place to Pray – First, make space to talk with God honestly about your fears, frustrations, and hopes. Prayer shifts your perspective and aligns your heart with His.
Ask God to Cleanse Your Heart and Bring Peace – Next, when your mind feels cluttered, ask Him to wash away anxious thoughts and replace them with His calm.
Get into His Word – Then, let Scripture steady you when everything else feels shaky. Even a single verse can keep you grounded in truth.
Fast – Sometimes we need to quiet our bodies to hear God more clearly. As a result, fasting removes distractions and makes space for His voice.
Take One Small Step – Finally, remember you don’t have to fix everything at once. Just start where you are and trust Him with the next step.

Learning from Joseph’s Rhythm Shifts

I think of Joseph. His rhythm shifted over and over—from living with family, to slavery, to serving in Pharaoh’s home, to prison, and finally to a position where he saved his family and a nation.

When God moved us to Texas, I couldn’t see the full picture any more than Joseph could when he was in prison. All I knew was that my rhythm was gone, and I was stepping into the unknown. But just like Joseph’s obedience positioned him to save a nation, our obedience opened doors in ministry we never could have imagined. In other words, what felt like a complete disruption was actually God setting the stage for something greater.

Genesis 50:20 says, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”

Joseph’s story—and our own—remind me that God’s hand is at work even when the rhythm feels chaotic. Trusting Him in those moments allows us to see the beauty of His plan when the pieces finally come together.

If this speaks to your heart, pin it so you’ll have it handy on the days your rhythm feels a little off.

Walking Forward in His Rhythm

If your rhythm feels off right now, take heart—God has not lost track of you or your story. The beat may sound unfamiliar, but He is still the One leading the song. Therefore, trust the process, lean in to His timing, and allow Him to guide your steps one measure at a time.

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Remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are.

Susan Raynor

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The Truth About Our First Year Homeschooling: Wins, Worries & What We Used

Susan Raynor — Mon, 28 Jul 2025 12:00:00 +0000

Never in a million years did I think I would be a homeschool mom. As many who follow already know, life threw us a curve ball last year—and suddenly, we were experiencing our first year homeschooling.

I had no idea what I was doing, and this post shares the truth about our first year homeschooling: the wins, the worries, and what curriculum we used.

We had always attended an Accelerated Christian Education (A.C.E.) school and didn’t know anything different. Sure, I had helped teach at the school before, but there was always a team. Time changed—and suddenly I was the only teacher. I was scared. My son requires a lot of attention, and I was afraid of not getting it right.

If you’re unfamiliar with A.C.E., it’s a solid Christian-based, self-paced curriculum. It focuses on independent learning, character building, and Bible integration. Students work through “PACEs” (Packets of Accelerated Christian Education) independently at their own speed. It’s great for families looking for a structured, traditional format—and I still highly recommend it. They believe in what they do and provide families with a strong academic foundation.

Why We Needed a Different Approach During Our First Year Homeschooling

That said, I knew my son needed something a bit more interactive to keep his attention at home. He is incredibly smart but thrives with hands-on learning. (Note: I’m not speaking negatively about him here—just sharing how I had to adjust as a mom.)

After a conversation with my sister-in-law—whose son learns similarly—I decided to try The Good and the Beautiful. Was it worth it? Absolutely. Did it require work? Absolutely. But my son loved it.

The Good and the Beautiful Curriculum Review from Our First Year Homeschooling

Why We Loved It:

Offers beautifully designed curriculum for Language Arts, Math, Science, and more
Language Arts (Levels K–8) and Math (Levels K–5) are available as free PDF downloads on their site
Lessons are colorful, engaging, and often incorporate nature, art, and hands-on learning
Short, manageable segments that work well for active learners

The curriculum made learning fun and kept my son involved throughout the day. However, science and social studies didn’t stick as well. The content was solid, but the format just didn’t hold his attention consistently.

Why We Switched to Time4Learning Mid-Year

So we pivoted after the new year and gave Time4Learning a try—specifically for Science and Social Studies.

What Worked with Time4Learning:

100% online, interactive format with animated lessons
Self-paced, offering built-in quizzes and review tools
Flexible structure that allowed us to supplement only the subjects we needed
It challenged my son while keeping his attention through video and audio content

Sure, we had some tough days. But by the end of our first year homeschooling, we finally found a rhythm that worked.

I had to learn to adjust my expectations, too. I’m naturally a “check-it-off-the-list” kind of person. My kids? They tend to lean more toward the “it can wait” attitude—thanks to their dad. So I had to learn to slow down.

Hands-On Learning in Real Life

Some of our most meaningful learning came outside the workbook. My son loves helping in the kitchen—so we counted baking as class some days. We gardened together, talked about bugs and compost, and explored life skills that matter just as much as test scores.

One of his absolute favorite activities was a volcano experiment we did using the UNGLINGA Science Kit, a generous gift from a wonderful lady in our church. The kit is packed with over 70 STEM experiments—from erupting volcanoes to fruit circuits—and was such a fun, educational addition to our homeschool curriculum. If you’re looking for a hands-on science supplement, I highly recommend it!

One of our favorite homeschool science activities! This volcano experiment from the UNGLINGA kit was a huge hit. Save it to try later!

What My High Schooler Chose: Power Homeschool

As for my daughter, she chose to continue with A.C.E. last year because it was familiar. But after seeing her brother enjoy his lessons so much, she decided to switch this year to Power Homeschool. She’s entering 11th grade and is eager to explore electives while helping with our family business.

Why She’s Excited About Power Homeschool:

Offers monthly subscriptions, no long-term contracts
Access to core classes and a wide range of electives (business, art, foreign languages)
Includes pre-recorded video lessons and automatic grading
Ideal for independent, motivated learners in middle and high school

She enjoyed A.C.E. and learned a lot, but she was ready for a fresh experience—and Power Homeschool provides that flexibility.

Why We Believe in Homeschooling

Some may wonder why we homeschool rather than choosing public school. I believe every family deserves the freedom to make that decision.

In our case, it became clear when people in our community and friends of our kids affirmed that this was the better choice for our family.

Homeschooling is not for the faint of heart. Some moms may breeze through it—but many of us are learning as we go. It’s not always sitting at a desk from 8 to 3. It’s life, woven into learning. It’s math in the kitchen. Science in the backyard. Lessons in patience—for both teacher and student.

Our TCAP Testing Results Gave Me Peace

The ultimate reassurance came when we received our TCAP testing results. It’s a state-required test here in Tennessee. I wasn’t too worried about my daughter, but I had serious doubts about how my son would do—especially with spelling. He reads well but struggles with spelling. Imagine my surprise (and relief!) when his scores came back higher than expected.

It reminded me: I am doing okay.

Final Thoughts on Our First Year Homeschooling

To every mom reading this—if you’re just starting your first year homeschooling or still figuring out what works best for your child—I see you. I know the fears, the second-guessing, the sleepless nights wondering if you’re doing it right. I’ve been there. And while it’s not always easy, it is worth it. You’re showing up, you’re learning alongside your kids, and that’s something to be proud of.

So here’s my prayer for the coming year— That I would let go of the reins a little more. That our homeschool days would flow with peace, not pressure. That my kids would not only learn but enjoy the process.

And that I would remember this: learning isn’t about checking off boxes. It’s about shaping hearts, building memories, and trusting that God’s got this journey in His hands.

Wondering how to survive your first year homeschooling? Here’s what helped us thrive—save this post for later!

You can also read more from my sister-in-law—whose insights and encouragement helped shape our journey—in this blog post: Homemaking Harmony: Embracing Homeschooling.

We even sat down for a heartfelt conversation you can watch here on YouTube: Watch the Interview.

Susan Raynor

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Celebrating Two Years of Encouragement in Chaos

Susan Raynor — Mon, 07 Jul 2025 12:00:00 +0000

I cannot believe that today marks two years since I hit publish on the very first blog post here at Makin’ Macon. What began as a simple step of obedience has grown into a space full of encouragement in chaos. If you haven’t read that beginning chapter—‘In the Beginning…’—be sure to go and check it out.

God’s Unexpected Call to Blog

Stepping into the blogging world was never something I had planned. Growing up, you know how they always ask what you want to be when you grow up? I never had a clear answer. At one point, I leaned toward journalism. I even took classes for it in school. I loved creating church bulletins each week and even mailed out monthly ones to anyone who wanted them (I’ll include a photo of one for fun!). But every time I tried to step into that door professionally, it never opened.

One of my favorite creative throwbacks—these were the monthly bulletins I designed and mailed out for our church nearly 30 years ago!

Instead, right out of high school, I went to work at a local real estate office. The broker took me under her wing, and I became the go-to girl for everything—from creating brochures to bringing that office into the digital age. (Yes, I’m that old!) I learned so much in that season and made some dear friends, but I knew deep down it still wasn’t my forever purpose. God had other plans.

The Pastor’s Wife I Never Planned to Be

As a teenager, I boldly said I would never marry a preacher or a pastor. I didn’t. But God has a beautiful sense of humor—because here I am, a pastor’s wife of almost 20 years. What a ride it’s been!

Makin’ Macon was born during one of the most chaotic seasons of my life. I was walking through hardship and loneliness, particularly in ministry. I’ve always written in journals to process my thoughts, and when God nudged me to start a blog, I hesitated. Oh, I made every excuse you can think of. But deep down, I wanted to help other pastor’s wives who might feel the same way I did: faithful, but isolated.

Encouragement in the Chaos

What’s wild is how this blog quickly became a space for all women. Women juggling motherhood, homemaking, ministry, and all the messy parts of life. It’s grown into a place where anyone can find:

Faith-based encouragement
Easy, no-nonsense recipes
Homemaking tips that don’t require perfection
Natural wellness ideas, including essential oils

And most importantly, it’s a place where you don’t have to pretend. You don’t have to keep up with the Jones‘. You can show up in the chaos, and know that God is still right there with you.

My Walk, Shared With You

If you’ve read any of the encouragement posts here, you know they come straight from my walk with the Lord. They’re not manufactured or planned months in advance. They’re lived, prayed through, and shared as He leads. I always pray they meet you right where you are.

There have been many moments when I’ve asked God, “Are You sure You still want me to do this?” And right when I feel unsure, He sends a comment or email from one of you letting me know how something I wrote encouraged you. Or maybe it was a recipe that helped your week go smoother. Or an oil blend that brought relief.

YOU are the reason I keep showing up. God uses your words to remind me that this work is for His glory, not mine. I may never meet many of you in person, but I feel connected to this little community in such a powerful way.

No Perfection Required—Just Faithfulness

Starting this blog was never about building a brand. It’s always been about pointing you to Jesus. My hope has always been that when you read a post or an email, you feel a little lighter, a little stronger, and a little more reminded that God doesn’t expect perfection. He just asks us to be faithful.

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Colossians 3:23-24 NIV

Exciting News: The Podcast Is Here!

Now for the latest big news—and what a way to celebrate our blog birthday! If you’ve been on the homepage or following on social media, you probably already know: Makin’ Macon now has a podcast. Yes, I said it! A podcast.Gasp.

Let me just say, it was a whole rollercoaster conversation with God to get here. But here we are. The first official episode releases this Wednesday, and I’d love for you to listen.

If you tune in, would you do me a favor? Leave a comment or message letting me know if it encouraged you. That feedback means the world.

Stay Connected

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Leave comments on the blog. Hit reply on an email. Share how something blessed you. I read every word, and it helps keep me going.

So here’s to another year of showing up, sharing encouragement, and walking this road together.

Rooted and Ready for Year Three

I cannot wait to see what God has in store for Makin’ Macon in this next season. Thank you for being a part of it.

Remember, I’m always praying for you, even if I don’t know who you are.

Susan Raynor

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How to Prepare Your Heart and Home for a Meaningful 4th of July

Susan Raynor — Mon, 23 Jun 2025 12:00:00 +0000

As a kid, some of my favorite memories were riding 3-wheelers (yes, I’m that old), eating watermelon (or at least trying to—I’ve never been a fan), and watching fireworks light up the sky with cousins, neighbors, and church family. We played croquet in the yard, volleyball on makeshift courts, and shared meals off paper plates with plastic forks—sometimes with deviled eggs, sometimes just simple summer food. It wasn’t always the 4th of July — but it was time well spent.

Those moments mattered—not because they were grand or picture-perfect, but because they were spent together. As we approach this holiday, let’s talk about how to prepare your heart and home for a meaningful 4th of July rooted in connection, gratitude, and joy.

Prepare Your Heart: Be Present With the People You Love This 4th of July

We often talk about freedom on the 4th of July—freedom fought for, celebrated, and remembered. But there’s another kind of freedom that matters deeply too: the freedom to slow down and be fully present with the people God has placed in your life.

Whether you’re gathering with your church family, spending time with grandparents, cousins, or close friends, these moments matter. I’ve lost all my grandparents now, and while I miss them deeply, I’m so thankful for the memories we created—meals around the table, long summer evenings, and just being together.

Ask yourself:

Who can I intentionally spend time with this week?
What simple traditions can I start—or bring back—that invite connection and joy?

You don’t need a perfect plan. You just need open hands, a little margin, and a grateful heart.

"Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves." – Romans 12:10

Prepare Your Home for a Meaningful 4th of July

Your home doesn’t need to look like Pinterest to hold sacred space. Preparing your home for a meaningful 4th of July is about making room for joy, connection, and community.

Here are a few simple ways to do that:

Host a laid-back porch picnic with burgers, cobbler, and conversation
Play music that lifts spirits and sets a tone of peace
Light a candle, tidy just one area, and let the rest be what it is
Invite others in, even if it’s last-minute or imperfect
Get outside and be active—set up a simple volleyball net, pull out a croquet set, or revive an old-fashioned game from your childhood. It’s easy to forget the joy of outdoor play, but it makes memories that last.

Pin this post to save meaningful 4th of July ideas! From simple games and sparklers to quality time with family, these are the moments that truly matter.

Want simple recipes that bring people together? Don’t miss my 4th of July recipe roundup—full of faith-filled dishes for real-life gatherings.

And yes, community matters. Studies consistently show that families who eat and celebrate together foster stronger emotional bonds and lower stress. Whether it’s your church picnic, a backyard hangout, or sharing watermelon (even if you don’t like it), these moments shape your home.

8 Simple Ways to Make the 4th More Meaningful

Start the day with a prayer of gratitude for freedom—both physical and spiritual.
Read a Scripture together as a family (Galatians 5:1 or John 8:36 are great places to start).
Ask older family members to share memories of past 4th of July celebrations.
Serve a neighbor or church member who might be alone for the holiday.
Play a favorite game or activity together without the rush.
Cook a dish that’s been in your family for generations.
Pause before the fireworks to reflect on what freedom means to your family.
Let the kids run through the sprinklers and end the evening with a few simple fireworks—nothing fancy required. The goal is time together, not perfection.

Prepare with Purpose, Not Perfection

You don’t have to do it all. You just have to show up.

Prepare your heart in quiet moments with the Lord. Prepare your home with space for laughter, prayer, and paper plates. Let go of the pressure and lean into the purpose.

This 4th of July, may your home be a place where freedom is celebrated, Christ is honored, and community is cherished.

If you’re new here—welcome! I’d love to invite you to stick around. Each week, I share encouragement for your heart and practical ideas for your home. From simple sourdough to scripture-based routines, there’s always something to help you stay grounded in grace and grow in faith.

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Thanks for being here, friend. You’re not just welcome at this table—you’re needed.

Susan Raynor

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How to Flourish in Life’s Unfinished Moments

Susan Raynor — Mon, 26 May 2025 12:00:00 +0000

Here we are, stepping into summer with school winding down and everything feeling a little…unfinished. Laundry piles, projects paused, dreams delayed—it’s all still here. But maybe that’s not a failure—it’s an invitation to flourish in life’s unfinished moments. Maybe it’s not about rushing to complete everything, but learning to embrace peace in the middle of life’s mess.

When the Mess Feels Bigger Than the Miracle

When I think of the unfinished places in my life, I see them through the lens of grace. God’s not done working on me yet. Like the clay in the potter’s hand in Jeremiah 18, He’s still molding and shaping me. If there’s a flaw, He doesn’t discard me—He continues working.

And that’s comforting, isn’t it? Because we all have cracks and flaws and things we wish we could hide or fix. But instead of walking away from us, God leans in. He keeps working.

It reminds me of an old childhood song:

“He’s still working on me, To make me what I ought to be. Took Him just a week to make the moon and the stars, The sun and the earth, and Jupiter and Mars. How loving and patient He must be, ‘Cause He’s still working on me.”

Even when life feels unfinished, God hasn’t stopped working in and through you.

Perfectionism and the Pressure to Finish

If you’re anything like me, perfectionism can be a problem. I like things to go a certain way—neatly wrapped, checked off, and just as I planned. But life? It has a way of showing us who’s really in control.

I look around my house and see unfinished projects, half-done plans, and a to-do list that never ends. It used to frustrate me. Sometimes, it still does. But I’ve been learning to find contentment even in what’s incomplete.

You might have dishes in the sink, laundry on the couch, or a prayer that hasn’t been answered yet. But guess what? You’re still showing up. You’re still serving, still praying, still loving. And that matters.

God Isn’t Done With Your Story

Just because something feels unfinished doesn’t mean it’s forgotten. It doesn’t mean God has left us or our desires behind. He’s still working in the waiting, in the mess, in the everyday ordinary of dishes, laundry, and yard work.

There will always be another task, another need, another chore—but peace isn’t found in getting it all done. It’s found in trusting the One who holds it all together.

"Being confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ." — Philippians 1:6

God isn’t looking for finished. He’s looking for faithful.

Embracing the Season You’re In

So how do we flourish in life’s unfinished moments?

We remember that to everything there is a season. Ecclesiastes 3:1 tells us:

"To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven."

Maybe this is your season of waiting or learning. It might feel like it’s dragging on forever. I know mine does. But it’s not wasted. Even if you can’t see the full picture yet, God does.

It might not look like growth from the outside. But roots grow deep in hidden places. Sometimes the most important transformation is happening where no one sees it.

What Flourishing Looks Like (Even in the Mess)

Flourishing doesn’t mean you have it all together. It doesn’t mean you check every box or finish every task.

Flourishing means you wake up and choose faith again. It means making space for peace, even when your schedule is packed. It means choosing joy while folding that third load of laundry. It means finding comfort in God’s presence while sitting in the unfinished places.

A Personal Note for the Unfinished Days

If I could sit across from you today with a cup of coffee between us, I’d look you in the eye and say, “You’re doing better than you think.”

I know the weight of the unfinished can feel heavy. I know what it’s like to wonder if your efforts even matter when nothing ever feels truly done.

But let me remind you: God sees it all. He sees your late-night folding, your prayers whispered in frustration, your heart that longs to rest but keeps going anyway.

You don’t have to hold it all together. He’s holding you.

That’s what gives me peace in this season, and I hope it encourages your heart too.

Flourishing Right Where You Are

There’s beauty to be found in the middle of things. Not when it’s all perfect. Not when it’s all done. But now. Today. In the quiet moments, in the chaos, in the sacred ordinary.

He sees you. He knows exactly what chapter you’re in. And He’s not done yet.

Learning to live with peace in life’s unfinished moments is part of the journey—and sister, you’re not walking it alone.

Keep Going

If this post encouraged you, you’ll also love:

How to Be Content in Every Season: 10 Biblical Steps to Learn Peace

Inside that post, you can grab a free printable with 10 simple, biblical ways to learn contentment—perfect for those days when peace feels hard to hold onto.

Or explore more faith-filled encouragement posts just for women walking through the chaos:

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Susan Raynor

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Thriving in the Tension: How to Flourish When Life Feels Chaotic

Susan Raynor — Mon, 12 May 2025 12:00:00 +0000

Have you ever looked at your calendar, your to-do list, your laundry pile—and just wanted to crawl under the covers with a chocolate bar and your Bible? If so, you’re not alone. Honestly, this is often the very moment we’re invited to flourish when life feels chaotic—not by fixing everything, but by learning to grow right in the mess.

There are days when I wonder how I’ll make it through the month—let alone the next hour. I set the goals, make the plan, color-code the calendar, and still… chaos has a way of sneaking in like a toddler with sticky hands.

And it’s in those moments—right smack in the mess—that I’ve learned the most about how to flourish when life feels chaotic.

What Does It Mean to Flourish When Life Feels Chaotic?

The word flourish means to grow or develop in a healthy and vigorous way—especially when the environment is favorable. And let’s be real: environment does matter. It’s not always about having the perfect setting, but ignoring your surroundings can absolutely stunt your growth.

Psalm 92:12–15 says:

“The righteous will flourish like a palm tree... planted in the house of the Lord, they will flourish... They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green.”

I recently read a commentary that said palm trees don’t even start producing fruit until they’re about 30 years old—and the older they get, the more fruitful they become. If that doesn’t speak to the weary heart wondering if she’s “past her prime,” I don’t know what will.

How Your Environment Impacts Spiritual Growth

Speaking from experience—if my house is a wreck, with things scattered everywhere and no sense of order (even if it’s not spotless), my anxiety goes through the roof. The noise, the mess, the chaos… it all compounds.

If there’s constant tension between you and your spouse—short answers, raised voices, emotional distance—it’s hard to find peace, let alone flourish.

If your interactions with your kids feel more reactive than intentional, or you haven’t had a moment to just be with them, that starts to wear on your heart. And let’s be honest, when our time with the Lord is missing or rushed, our roots feel dry and disconnected.

It’s like a plant—without water and light, it begins to wilt. Same with us.

But here’s what I’ve learned: even when the environment isn’t ideal, small changes make a big difference. A five-minute tidy-up. A deep breath before reacting. A whispered prayer over the dishes. A cup of coffee and one Psalm.

Sometimes the soil is rocky, but roots still grow deep when they’re searching for the Living Water.

Before we dive into the practical, let’s be honest—chaos isn’t always external. Sometimes it’s the storm swirling inside us that makes everything harder. But here’s the good news: you don’t have to wait for calm to grow in grace.

When Chaos Takes Over: Learning to Flourish Anyway

This year did not go as planned. We didn’t set out to homeschool. My son and I are two totally different creatures—he’s free as a bird; I’m “let’s get it done and do it efficiently.” It’s stretched me in ways I didn’t know I needed stretching.

I inherited my mama’s go-getter personality: list-maker, perfectionist, fixer. And while those traits can be a gift, they also make it hard to breathe when the plan falls apart.

But here’s the shift I’ve been learning: flourishing doesn’t mean everything’s perfect. It means leaning in—even when nothing looks like you expected.

God doesn’t call us to perfect routines. He calls us to His presence. That’s where real growth begins.

How to Flourish When Life Feels Chaotic: Practical Ways to Grow

1. Start Your Day with the Word to Flourish Spiritually

I know—you’re tired. You’ve got littles clinging to your legs or teens who test your nerves. But I promise, five minutes in the Word can shift your entire day. Sing while you rock the baby. Pray while you stir the soup. Whisper Scriptures while you drive. The Lord hears it all.

And believe me, I’ve seen what happens when I don’t start my day with Him. It’s not pretty.

Even if it feels like you’re only catching tiny moments of truth, those moments stack up. They form the foundation that helps you flourish when life feels chaotic.

2. Stop and Smell the Roses (Literally)

The other day, my daughter looked at me and said, “Mom, you’re always busy doing something.”

Ouch.

I thought I was managing things well—meal prepping, homeschooling, blogging, ministry-ing. But sometimes, the best thing I can do is pause. Sit. Look her in the eyes. Go outside and breathe.

Even homeschool looks different for us now. Less “sit still and do the workbook,” more “go outside and count the frogs.”

Let’s be honest—a walk in the yard or five minutes on the porch with a cup of tea can do wonders for a weary soul.

3. Schedule Time for You

This one feels impossible. But it’s not selfish—it’s survival.

I talked about this in my hormone support blend post, and let me tell you—I know this works because I’ve lived it. I still do. There are days I’ve had to step away, close my bedroom door, and grab a hot shower while my husband takes over with the kids. It’s not a luxury—it’s a necessity. I’ve learned that I have to check out for a minute so I can come back refreshed and ready to pour into my family again.

Even if it’s just five minutes with the door closed and the diffuser going, or a few deep breaths behind the bathroom door—take the time. You cannot pour from an empty cup. (And if you’re running on caffeine and fumes… I see you. Been there.)

You don’t need a weekend getaway to rest. Sometimes, it’s just a foot soak and a deep breath in the middle of a chaotic Tuesday.

Want to try my go-to hormone support blend? Click here for the full recipe gift set you can DIY or give to a fellow mom who needs a break.

4. Connect With Other Women in the Word

Flourishing in chaos often comes down to community. Whether it’s your church small group, a mom friend who brings over coffee, or someone who simply reminds you to breathe—we weren’t meant to do life alone.

Even a text that says, “Praying for you” can reset your entire perspective.

Not sure where to begin? That’s why I created my 5-Day Devotional for Women Who Do It All. It’s short, grace-filled, and designed for busy hearts who need real refreshment.

5. Don’t Forget—You’re Still Growing

Psalm 92 reminds us that even in old age, the righteous will bear fruit. That means you’re not done yet. Whether you’re 25 or 65, your roots go deeper, your faith grows stronger, and your influence becomes richer.

And those grays? Proverbs 16:31 calls them a crown of splendor. (If that’s true, then I must be royalty.)

“The Lord is upright; He is my Rock.”
—Psalm 92:15

That’s the secret right there. It’s not in the planner. It’s not in the perfect routine. It’s in Him.

When we anchor ourselves in His truth, we flourish in ways that schedules and systems never could.

Struggling to feel grounded in a busy season? These grace-filled steps might be just what your heart needs today. Save this for later when you need a gentle reset.

You Can Flourish When Life Feels Chaotic

You may not feel like you’re flourishing right now. You might feel more like you’re floundering. But if you’re rooted in Christ, you are growing—right in the middle of the mess.

Psalm 1:3 reminds us,

"He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper."

This verse is such a beautiful picture of what it means to flourish when life feels chaotic—our surroundings may shift, but when we’re rooted in God, we can still thrive. When we dig in deep—even when the ground feels shaky—our roots tap into something stronger than ourselves. Our fruit will be greater when we flourish in the middle, not just when things feel stable.

And friend, God is right there with you—in the middle of the noise, the laundry, the tears, the laughter. The greatest relief you can find in the chaos isn’t always control—it’s praise. Lifting your hands, your heart, and your voice to Him even when you don’t know what’s next.

So take heart. Even if your calendar is a disaster and your kitchen looks like a flour bomb exploded… you’re still blooming.

God’s grace isn’t reserved for peaceful mornings and tidy houses. It shows up in spilled coffee, broken routines, and the beautiful chaos of raising a family and walking in faith.

You were made to flourish. Not when things are perfect—but right here, right now.

A quiet reminder that even in the middle of chaos, your roots can grow deep. Pin this to come back to on the days when you need to hear it again.

Hungry for more Christ-centered homemaking encouragement?

Browse the Homemaking section of the blog for practical tips, routines, and faith-filled inspiration to help you thrive in every season at home.

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Susan Raynor

Stay Rooted When Life Feels Chaotic

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